________________________________________________________________________________________ Life is just so unpredictable...

Just last month, my old time poly mate sms-ed me wishing me a happy birthday but yet one month later gotten news that he has passed away.

I almost thought it was a prank joke cos the message was sent early in the morning on my way to work when i was still only half awaken. Immediately called up some other poly frens to check if they did received the same message too and alas, it turn out to be true.

Arranged to meet up after our work on that day to attend his funeral wake at Sin Ming Drive. Really almost couldnt recognise him in the coffin looking so much shag in him. Tears began to well up in my eyes and almost broke down when i just tot of the moments when we just communicated thru sms just last month when he could still remember my birthday even thou he was suffering in pain that point of time he was having his chemotherapy.

Yes, he passed away in life due to tumour and also luekemia. Heard that his tumour has removed and recovering but end up to realise he contracted luekemia as well. There was 2 bone marrow donors; one locally and the other in America. The local bone marrow turns out to be unsuitable while the other in America doctors confirmed that it was suitable but alas, he couldnt hang on till then.

The fact that such a good friend ever came into our life and i really am appreciative for that. He kept his illness from us not wanting to keep us worry and yet even remembers my birthday even thou he was undergoing thru lots of sufferings keeps me grief-stricken.

To Stanley: May you rest in peace. You will always be well remembered in our hearts. A promise we make to you. In loving memory of a good friend, Stanley Sze Kai.

A note i will like to make to all: Pls do treasure all your frens and loved ones around you. Do not always take things for granted. After this incident i sudden feel so guilty that i just "show signs of displeasure" with ah dear recently and left in a huff leaving him in a spot there at his sister son's one month birthday party. In future this will be a promise to myself, ah dear that i will try to be more accomodating and understanding towards him, not just anyhow "ou qi" and throw my "missy temper" a.ka. tantrums around anymore becos life is just so fragile and unpredictable. PAST ♠ FUTURE

Life is just so unpredictable...

Just last month, my old time poly mate sms-ed me wishing me a happy birthday but yet one month later gotten news that he has passed away.

I almost thought it was a prank joke cos the message was sent early in the morning on my way to work when i was still only half awaken. Immediately called up some other poly frens to check if they did received the same message too and alas, it turn out to be true.

Arranged to meet up after our work on that day to attend his funeral wake at Sin Ming Drive. Really almost couldnt recognise him in the coffin looking so much shag in him. Tears began to well up in my eyes and almost broke down when i just tot of the moments when we just communicated thru sms just last month when he could still remember my birthday even thou he was suffering in pain that point of time he was having his chemotherapy.

Yes, he passed away in life due to tumour and also luekemia. Heard that his tumour has removed and recovering but end up to realise he contracted luekemia as well. There was 2 bone marrow donors; one locally and the other in America. The local bone marrow turns out to be unsuitable while the other in America doctors confirmed that it was suitable but alas, he couldnt hang on till then.

The fact that such a good friend ever came into our life and i really am appreciative for that. He kept his illness from us not wanting to keep us worry and yet even remembers my birthday even thou he was undergoing thru lots of sufferings keeps me grief-stricken.

To Stanley: May you rest in peace. You will always be well remembered in our hearts. A promise we make to you. In loving memory of a good friend, Stanley Sze Kai.

A note i will like to make to all: Pls do treasure all your frens and loved ones around you. Do not always take things for granted. After this incident i sudden feel so guilty that i just "show signs of displeasure" with ah dear recently and left in a huff leaving him in a spot there at his sister son's one month birthday party. In future this will be a promise to myself, ah dear that i will try to be more accomodating and understanding towards him, not just anyhow "ou qi" and throw my "missy temper" a.ka. tantrums around anymore becos life is just so fragile and unpredictable.