________________________________________________________________________________________ Guys...

1) what exactly can i or should i do to get the message across to them?

I ve told you before... when i m angry i dont like to talk. Cos when i m feeling heated and u also feeling heated, there is sure bound to be arguments and big quarrels which is why i chose to keep quiet and cool myself down. But u always misinterpret it for "giving you face"..

Guys..

2) why is it that they cant seem to understand what a girl wants exactly??

Sometimes when a girl grumbles to you about work, friends etc etc.. what she needs is just a listening ear and also just a simple warm hug that's all and not a big lecture or stuffs like "aiya, every work place bound to encounter work problems with colleagues etc etc la...blah blah" from you. Who dont know about all this??

Guys..

3) Why cant they be more sensitive to girls feeling??

When a girl tells u something serious, pls do NOT always take it for a joke for this can get quite irritated with us.

A girl (esp your girlfriend) will NOT be able to stand her bf if he likes to keep talking about a particular girl-friend whom he might be very close with. Yes, we know u have your right of having friends of the opposite sex and we definitely have no qualms about that. ( I mean who doesnt have friends of the opposite sex? I do of cos ) Butt to keep hearing your boyfriend mentioning a particular girl-friend over and over again can get us quite frustrated.

Guys...

4) Be a gentlemen.

Even if a girl gets angry with you or if u are upset with the girl at least do have the basic courtesy and be gracious enough to send her home(especially ur GF) when it's late and NOT just dump her in the mrt station or anywhere. This is definitely NOT a trivial matter that we girls shouldnt get angry about.

*In fact the list can goes on and on but right now, i shall stop here. *

P.S. : Sorry, i am definitely not implicating ALL the guys here... pls do not misunderstand.

Anyway, my pre-birthday celebration with him turns out to be pretty upsetting....
For the first time i never had him doing some things to me. Am truly disappointed...

=( PAST ♠ FUTURE

Guys...

1) what exactly can i or should i do to get the message across to them?

I ve told you before... when i m angry i dont like to talk. Cos when i m feeling heated and u also feeling heated, there is sure bound to be arguments and big quarrels which is why i chose to keep quiet and cool myself down. But u always misinterpret it for "giving you face"..

Guys..

2) why is it that they cant seem to understand what a girl wants exactly??

Sometimes when a girl grumbles to you about work, friends etc etc.. what she needs is just a listening ear and also just a simple warm hug that's all and not a big lecture or stuffs like "aiya, every work place bound to encounter work problems with colleagues etc etc la...blah blah" from you. Who dont know about all this??

Guys..

3) Why cant they be more sensitive to girls feeling??

When a girl tells u something serious, pls do NOT always take it for a joke for this can get quite irritated with us.

A girl (esp your girlfriend) will NOT be able to stand her bf if he likes to keep talking about a particular girl-friend whom he might be very close with. Yes, we know u have your right of having friends of the opposite sex and we definitely have no qualms about that. ( I mean who doesnt have friends of the opposite sex? I do of cos ) Butt to keep hearing your boyfriend mentioning a particular girl-friend over and over again can get us quite frustrated.

Guys...

4) Be a gentlemen.

Even if a girl gets angry with you or if u are upset with the girl at least do have the basic courtesy and be gracious enough to send her home(especially ur GF) when it's late and NOT just dump her in the mrt station or anywhere. This is definitely NOT a trivial matter that we girls shouldnt get angry about.

*In fact the list can goes on and on but right now, i shall stop here. *

P.S. : Sorry, i am definitely not implicating ALL the guys here... pls do not misunderstand.

Anyway, my pre-birthday celebration with him turns out to be pretty upsetting....
For the first time i never had him doing some things to me. Am truly disappointed...

=(