________________________________________________________________________________________ This blog entry is going to be a super long entry with only just words. Please pardon and bear with me as I really need to let out my frustrations and grumbles...

I think I am going crazy sooner or later at this rate by continuing to stay at my hubby place with all his family members!!

All the bad habits that they have just irritates me a lot a lot! Basically, you name it, they have it. Uncouth, unhygienic, inconsiderate, lazyness blah blah.

1) FIL and young bro-in law who smokes so heavily. FIL used to smoke INSIDE the house. Thankfully, he managed to quit smoking quite sometime back. But lately, he picked up smoking again just because of a STUPID doctor who asked him to smoke back! WTBF??!! I have sensitive nose and I m not able to take those heavily perfumed people ad smokers.

2) Uncouth
Whenever FIL converse, you will always be able to hear vulgarities coming out from his mouth. Especially on the word "KNN". Yes, I do admit I sprout vulgarities at times too only whenever I m pissed or irritated but NOT always. How do you think I will allow my kid to grow up under such environment in future??!! Hubby always argued with me on the fact that even if they do not pick up at home, they may pick up from outside too. But the time they learn and pick up outside, they are already of some sensible and uncontrollable age. What I do not want to see is that they are able to learn such bad habits during their vulnerable, picking up and learning stage.

3) Unhygiene/ Inconsiderate (Part 1)
Hubby's younger sister family (Her husband and her kid) always drink off the cups and placing it back into the cupboards without even the basic courtesy of washing the cups. Unknowing people will just take and drink or even serve to guests. Before i serve any drinks to guests or even to take a drink myself, I always have to re-wash the cups again MYSELF. Another thing which I also cannot stand is that her kid and also sometimes MIL herself always drink off the drink bottle just like that. Especially the kid. Whenever MIL bought some milk back for everyone to share, her kid will always just drink off from the milk bottle itself. Just minutes back, he was drinking off the bottle again when he was actually coughing!! I wonder if this is how I fall sick now and caught the virus from him!! ARRRG!!!! The next time if I were to buy milk myself, I think I will hide it away from his sight. It is NOT a matter of my selffish-ness but rather they do NOT spare a thought a thought for others.

4) Inconsiderate (Part 2)
I know my MIL is good in taking care of everyone of us in the household and therefore I do not mean to criticise her but some of her bad habits its also somethings which I really really cannot take it either. She will just spit anywhere and also just throws and sweeps the rubbish out of the door just like that. Let me quote an example. One occassion when hubby, FIL, MIL and myself was out in car in JB, MIL ate some food inside the car and when finished, she just wind down the car window and threw the remainings outside of the car!! I was SHOCKED. First, she did not bother with the fact that there might be motorcyclist just beside the car and what if it blocked the sight of motorcyclist or what? Second, this is in JB, maybe I could not have cared less BUT what if she was being caught by police or other drivers?? Or maybe some JB-ians (I dunno how to call them) just get pissed off by her behaviour and start attacking us or something?? I was utterly very shameful and I sulked while sitting inside the car the remaining of the time.....

5) Inconsiderate (Part 3)
I can't seem the have the TV to myself. When FIL or anyone else starts to switch on the TV first to watch channels which I don't watch, I will walk away to the room and find something else to do like surfing net etc etc. BUT when it was my turn to switch on the TV first to watch, they will just take the remote control from me and just switch channels to watch. WTF??!!!! Not the first or second time liao lor.... I want a TV Set to myself in my room!!!! DAMMIT!!!

6) Inconsiderate (Part 4)
I know a kid is still a kid when will have mischevious ways sometimes. But then, I really really can't stand hubby's sister kid. Always just like to play, watch tv, play and still watch tv. Whenever he comes back home, the first thing he will do is to switch on the TV if not always come into his uncle (Hubby) bedroom to switch on his laptop if not take his I-phone to play games. (It is because hubby changed his monitor to a bigger monitor instead of the usual normal lappie size monitor.) And it's also due to the above reason, whenever his mum (hubby's sister) came back home from work, she will start to beat and scold her children and the whole house will be noisy).

7) MIL bad habits is like to spend a lot buying lots of food for all of us. She just doesn't know how to control herself. Sometimes when we are out with her, we just have to stop her. Otherwise she will buy a lot more extra then the normal serving. It's no wonder she hinted to hubby to hint me to give her some allowances as she doesn't have enough to spend. Even if she doesn't hint, I will naturally fork out a bit to give her on my portion. But, she doesn't hint for younger bro-in-law to provide her with allowances. Did a checked with hubby and gotten to know that Bro-in-law doesnt give MIL allowances. DUH!! Hubby says its because he doesn't earn much. I retorted back saying that it isn't a matter of earning much or less but rather it is a matter of whether you are sincere enough. You can't possibly stay and eat for free can you??! Even I already feel bad staying here with them during these period of time when I m jobless. Hubby is the one paying for everything in the household expenses... I always feel so heartpain for him whenever he worked so hard but yet not everyone in the family understands him. Hubby keep saying it's okie as long as he still can cope it's okie. ARRRG!!!

The worse thing of all also is that everyone has the bad habit of leaving all the lights on in the house even after they have finished doing their thing. GOODNESS!!! Such a BIG wastage of energy and resources. They don't even bother to save the earth at all... and most imptly, hubby is paying for all the elect bills mah. Next time when we move house, it will be just me and hubby paying for the household expenses.

8) Lastly, FIL lazyness is also another thing which I also cannot stand. He doesn't wants to go out, find a job and help to support the family. Always giving reasons... I also do not want to elaborate further anymore..

Actually, there might be some more to add on...but I'm too tired to just continue writing any further... I m down with very very painful sorethroat and flu right now... Slept almost the whole of today. Sighs...

I m really going crazy anytime soon if I continue to live and stay with them but I really have no other choice... I think I seriously need help!!! PAST ♠ FUTURE

This blog entry is going to be a super long entry with only just words. Please pardon and bear with me as I really need to let out my frustrations and grumbles...

I think I am going crazy sooner or later at this rate by continuing to stay at my hubby place with all his family members!!

All the bad habits that they have just irritates me a lot a lot! Basically, you name it, they have it. Uncouth, unhygienic, inconsiderate, lazyness blah blah.

1) FIL and young bro-in law who smokes so heavily. FIL used to smoke INSIDE the house. Thankfully, he managed to quit smoking quite sometime back. But lately, he picked up smoking again just because of a STUPID doctor who asked him to smoke back! WTBF??!! I have sensitive nose and I m not able to take those heavily perfumed people ad smokers.

2) Uncouth
Whenever FIL converse, you will always be able to hear vulgarities coming out from his mouth. Especially on the word "KNN". Yes, I do admit I sprout vulgarities at times too only whenever I m pissed or irritated but NOT always. How do you think I will allow my kid to grow up under such environment in future??!! Hubby always argued with me on the fact that even if they do not pick up at home, they may pick up from outside too. But the time they learn and pick up outside, they are already of some sensible and uncontrollable age. What I do not want to see is that they are able to learn such bad habits during their vulnerable, picking up and learning stage.

3) Unhygiene/ Inconsiderate (Part 1)
Hubby's younger sister family (Her husband and her kid) always drink off the cups and placing it back into the cupboards without even the basic courtesy of washing the cups. Unknowing people will just take and drink or even serve to guests. Before i serve any drinks to guests or even to take a drink myself, I always have to re-wash the cups again MYSELF. Another thing which I also cannot stand is that her kid and also sometimes MIL herself always drink off the drink bottle just like that. Especially the kid. Whenever MIL bought some milk back for everyone to share, her kid will always just drink off from the milk bottle itself. Just minutes back, he was drinking off the bottle again when he was actually coughing!! I wonder if this is how I fall sick now and caught the virus from him!! ARRRG!!!! The next time if I were to buy milk myself, I think I will hide it away from his sight. It is NOT a matter of my selffish-ness but rather they do NOT spare a thought a thought for others.

4) Inconsiderate (Part 2)
I know my MIL is good in taking care of everyone of us in the household and therefore I do not mean to criticise her but some of her bad habits its also somethings which I really really cannot take it either. She will just spit anywhere and also just throws and sweeps the rubbish out of the door just like that. Let me quote an example. One occassion when hubby, FIL, MIL and myself was out in car in JB, MIL ate some food inside the car and when finished, she just wind down the car window and threw the remainings outside of the car!! I was SHOCKED. First, she did not bother with the fact that there might be motorcyclist just beside the car and what if it blocked the sight of motorcyclist or what? Second, this is in JB, maybe I could not have cared less BUT what if she was being caught by police or other drivers?? Or maybe some JB-ians (I dunno how to call them) just get pissed off by her behaviour and start attacking us or something?? I was utterly very shameful and I sulked while sitting inside the car the remaining of the time.....

5) Inconsiderate (Part 3)
I can't seem the have the TV to myself. When FIL or anyone else starts to switch on the TV first to watch channels which I don't watch, I will walk away to the room and find something else to do like surfing net etc etc. BUT when it was my turn to switch on the TV first to watch, they will just take the remote control from me and just switch channels to watch. WTF??!!!! Not the first or second time liao lor.... I want a TV Set to myself in my room!!!! DAMMIT!!!

6) Inconsiderate (Part 4)
I know a kid is still a kid when will have mischevious ways sometimes. But then, I really really can't stand hubby's sister kid. Always just like to play, watch tv, play and still watch tv. Whenever he comes back home, the first thing he will do is to switch on the TV if not always come into his uncle (Hubby) bedroom to switch on his laptop if not take his I-phone to play games. (It is because hubby changed his monitor to a bigger monitor instead of the usual normal lappie size monitor.) And it's also due to the above reason, whenever his mum (hubby's sister) came back home from work, she will start to beat and scold her children and the whole house will be noisy).

7) MIL bad habits is like to spend a lot buying lots of food for all of us. She just doesn't know how to control herself. Sometimes when we are out with her, we just have to stop her. Otherwise she will buy a lot more extra then the normal serving. It's no wonder she hinted to hubby to hint me to give her some allowances as she doesn't have enough to spend. Even if she doesn't hint, I will naturally fork out a bit to give her on my portion. But, she doesn't hint for younger bro-in-law to provide her with allowances. Did a checked with hubby and gotten to know that Bro-in-law doesnt give MIL allowances. DUH!! Hubby says its because he doesn't earn much. I retorted back saying that it isn't a matter of earning much or less but rather it is a matter of whether you are sincere enough. You can't possibly stay and eat for free can you??! Even I already feel bad staying here with them during these period of time when I m jobless. Hubby is the one paying for everything in the household expenses... I always feel so heartpain for him whenever he worked so hard but yet not everyone in the family understands him. Hubby keep saying it's okie as long as he still can cope it's okie. ARRRG!!!

The worse thing of all also is that everyone has the bad habit of leaving all the lights on in the house even after they have finished doing their thing. GOODNESS!!! Such a BIG wastage of energy and resources. They don't even bother to save the earth at all... and most imptly, hubby is paying for all the elect bills mah. Next time when we move house, it will be just me and hubby paying for the household expenses.

8) Lastly, FIL lazyness is also another thing which I also cannot stand. He doesn't wants to go out, find a job and help to support the family. Always giving reasons... I also do not want to elaborate further anymore..

Actually, there might be some more to add on...but I'm too tired to just continue writing any further... I m down with very very painful sorethroat and flu right now... Slept almost the whole of today. Sighs...

I m really going crazy anytime soon if I continue to live and stay with them but I really have no other choice... I think I seriously need help!!!